A great “re-introduction”

I had a very enjoyable experience at BLFC ’19 fox party, technically my 2nd time at one. I had kinda been forced into going to my first one at FC ’19 as part of a 3some. It was rather awkward for me as the other 2 folks kinda went straight at it with an excessive amount of noise that immediately drew the attention of the entire fox party attendees, putting me in the spotlight as the forgotten third wheel just kinda standing there naked. When they finished they exited quickly, but the host of the night (Tor, who’d seen my visible discomfort to the whole situation) asked if I was ok & had any questions.

We got to talking and within 5min I was at ease. He introduced me to a few others there, we all talked about kinks, boundaries & personal preferences. My awkward 1st time had turned into a Q&A session, one that made me feel much more comfortable & a part of a new community.

Sadly I wasn’t able to stay, but I was asked to come back at BLFC. Now, armed with a much better understanding of the whole thing, I was instantly comfortable, even confident. I spent the night exploring shock energy, sex with an audience, DP, pup play, and flogging, all without any of my previous worries or feelings of being an outsider. It was such a great time I stayed till the end of the evening!

I want to give special thanks to the host Tor & Yumi for helping to demystify everything and help make it an enjoyable “reintroduction”. I will definitely be happy to attend future parties.