Party Rules
- Affirmative consent is expected for anything. Use the “ask to touch” rule if you don’t know the person or with what they’re comfortable.
- If your relationship has certain boundaries it is up to you to be verbal and enforce those boundaries. People at the party don’t know your situation.
- If you are not involved in someone else’s play or scene do not disrupt or attempt to enter the scene.
- Do not interrupt to ask to join. You can watch if the activity is in an open room.
- If you would like people to join YOUR scene, please be vocal and ask them or put out an invite to the room if people are watching.
- If there is a lull in the activity, and you feel like your participation would be welcome by all other parties, you may ask if they could use a bit of help, or if you can join.
- If you are not sure about the well-being of others in a scene please bring your concerns to an admin so we can assess the situation. Do not disrupt the scene unless you are sure of a clear danger.
- Do not cum on or in anyone without permission
- Maintain and re-check for consent verbally or nonverbally before escalating the activities.
- If you make a mess clean it up.
- Towels will be offered at all events for penetrative play and general clean up. If they run out feel free to grab an admin or post in chat
- If you have trouble cleaning up a mess please message or grab an admin, we are here to help!
- No kink or body shaming
- Everyone has different preferences kink and body wise. We expect party goers to be tolerant of others and their expressions of themselves.
- We heavily encourage the stoplight safeword system. Here is a brief rundown of the generally accepted use of the stoplight colors.
- “Red” – Saying red indicates the scene needs to halt and people need to check in with each other. A person repeating red over and over is generally a sign to get them out of that scene entirely (remove restraints, give cuddles if they are open to it).
- “Yellow” – Saying yellow indicates the person does not like the direction this is going, or that they have gone as far as they can with a particular thing for the moment (a bite, spanking, etc). It does not mean the scene needs to end and does not need verbal check in unless the safeword continues.
- “Green” – Green is a bit special. Some people use it to mean “Harder” but I’ve found it being used as well in more extreme scenes to signify continued consent without breaking the dynamic of the scene. This wont be a super common one for most people I don’t think. Saying “Harder” covers most people for this one.
- We will kick you out if you come in overly intoxicated or get too drunk at the event. You need to be able to walk.
- These rules might change.
- Let me know if you have any corrections or ideas!
- I will try to post if I make major changes
CHAT SPECIFIC RULES
- Admins have the final say for small disputes.
- Ask admins to advertise.
- Special requests should be sent to admins in pm not through general chat
- This includes advertising, alerts, or concerns about other members.
- We may disable forwards in the chat from time to time to curb spam. The bot will be set to delete forwards and will mute you after 7 forwards as this is the most lax setting we have available.
- Warnings, mutes, and bans are at the discretion of the admins and are dealt with case by case for more severe infractions.
- Issues that cannot be solved by individual parties that are directly related to Foxparties may request the intervention of an admin if one is available to assist.
- As a rule of thumb admins work on a consensus please do not pm other admins unless told to do so if you are unhappy with the resolution an admin has presented to you because it comes with the authority of all admins.
- Harassing or threatening admins will not be tolerated.